It is no longer a mystery, with the name of our blog Personal Travel in pairs, you will all understand that we travel together! After crossing South America, we now walk everywhere in Europe on business and our future adventure gently prepares Asia. This means that the first experience was not discouraged, on the contrary! We already had the virus before traveling to meet us and it has only grow and turn it into a terrible desire to discover the world together. Yet our travels couple are sometimes far from a honeymoon in extension. We have to say things as they are: two travel can also have its share of disadvantages. But let's start with the best before you off right away, you, behind your screen that plan maybe chuck everything and go with your expensive (e) and tend to the other side of the world ...
advantages
MUTUAL SUPPORT
If you rarely left alone constantly when traveling alone - unless it is voluntary - the couple travel imposes itself a presence at his side every day. This presence is an undeniable advantage in times of hardship. Someone who will cheer you up and support you, even physically, is important when traveling long. When that one person knows you and knows you just calm down in a few words, you reassure a kiss, to encourage you to move forward when you think you are out of strength or make you laugh when you have a little bit of blues, then you will know immediately that you have done well to leave at two.
Credit: John O'Sullivan / Creative Commons
Credit: John O'Sullivan / Creative Commons
SHARING DAILY
A trip is a unique experience that you will tell one million times to friends and family when you return. But before sharing, we must live these adventures! And when we climbed a peak once thought insurmountable, when we crossed miles on foot with twelve pounds on your back, or just when one is faced with a wonderful sunset, we want to share right now this moment with someone hot and not to tell him in three months when the decline has blurred the magic and excitement. We just want to take her hand and say that we are lucky to be there, happy and proud to have done this together.
A TEST
If daily life at home is going well, life journey is a real test. Some couples can not resist them. But no, do not leave yet! Certainly this advantage can also be a disadvantage. But finding another trip will reveal all its faults, no filter, no way out other than to resolve communication problems and will even confront you with your own shortcomings. In the end, this adventure as you live on the other side of the world will let you know if it is likely to last you return. In short, to paraphrase Xavier in The Russian Dolls "is starting off with someone we can know if we are close."
A FORCE FOR THE FUTURE
Once past that test, your adventure is complete, your relationship will only be stronger. Because to quote another cliché "what does not kill you makes you stronger." Obviously, you will not be vaccinated against the petty arguments but everyday problems you seem to be only trifles face that you lived together in some more difficult situations, and you can overcome them with much greater ease and especially serenity. Your complicity is also grown and you will just want to leave together!
Credit: Ellen Kaufman / Creative Commons
Credit: Ellen Kaufman / Creative Commons
disadvantages
HYGIENE AND PRIVACY FOR ALL
One drawback which comes into play if you decide to go backpacking, couch surfing, hostel and camping mode. If you go to the hotel every night, which is more luxurious, I wish you good instead of bubble baths and free parts of legs in the air around the world. With a little less comfort, your sex life will not however be as prosperous and at home. After a trek of three days without a shower and sleep 4 hours in the nose, you may not want to provide your body with your other half will have. The journey thus strength to love each other despite the fatigue, sweating, without artifice. A love for real then.
DUTY TO MAKE CONCESSIONS
Sometimes you will need to follow each other in adventures that do not like you at first. If it is culture and you bun, if you are more mountains and sea him, we must learn to compose your trip together so that everyone can find happiness without anyone feels aggrieved. One drawback that is not an entirely because the key to life together, traveling as elsewhere, lies in accepting the other as it is to listen and understand their desires with the sacrifices that this can sometimes involved.
The OMNIPRESENCE THE OTHER
If feel supported and share everything with his half are advantages, its presence at your side at all times can also be a drawback. It is also necessary to keep your marriage survive your trip, you give you moments to you. A little massage while Madame went shopping, a cinema comedy -Romantic while Mr. attends his soccer game in the stands ... If for some that fall within the concession, for others, it will avoid the contrary in do, two disadvantages avoided one go!
some disappointments
Travel may be indicative of certain defects in the other that you had not discovered before, the situation of daily unsuita- there. Latent racism, a bad habit to be carried away by events, a special way to get excited at the slightest blow ... the list of defects that can occur while traveling is long on everyone. Perhaps the question itself does not yet know! Again, everything is a matter of concession and travel two will test the strength of your relationship.
Here you are now warned that the adventure couple offers: its share of surprises, discoveries, unforgettable memories, and sometimes small mishaps, but nothing that can not be overcome by talking a bit and taking self. So, ready to go on a trip together?
advantages
MUTUAL SUPPORT
If you rarely left alone constantly when traveling alone - unless it is voluntary - the couple travel imposes itself a presence at his side every day. This presence is an undeniable advantage in times of hardship. Someone who will cheer you up and support you, even physically, is important when traveling long. When that one person knows you and knows you just calm down in a few words, you reassure a kiss, to encourage you to move forward when you think you are out of strength or make you laugh when you have a little bit of blues, then you will know immediately that you have done well to leave at two.
Credit: John O'Sullivan / Creative Commons
Credit: John O'Sullivan / Creative Commons
SHARING DAILY
A trip is a unique experience that you will tell one million times to friends and family when you return. But before sharing, we must live these adventures! And when we climbed a peak once thought insurmountable, when we crossed miles on foot with twelve pounds on your back, or just when one is faced with a wonderful sunset, we want to share right now this moment with someone hot and not to tell him in three months when the decline has blurred the magic and excitement. We just want to take her hand and say that we are lucky to be there, happy and proud to have done this together.
A TEST
If daily life at home is going well, life journey is a real test. Some couples can not resist them. But no, do not leave yet! Certainly this advantage can also be a disadvantage. But finding another trip will reveal all its faults, no filter, no way out other than to resolve communication problems and will even confront you with your own shortcomings. In the end, this adventure as you live on the other side of the world will let you know if it is likely to last you return. In short, to paraphrase Xavier in The Russian Dolls "is starting off with someone we can know if we are close."
A FORCE FOR THE FUTURE
Once past that test, your adventure is complete, your relationship will only be stronger. Because to quote another cliché "what does not kill you makes you stronger." Obviously, you will not be vaccinated against the petty arguments but everyday problems you seem to be only trifles face that you lived together in some more difficult situations, and you can overcome them with much greater ease and especially serenity. Your complicity is also grown and you will just want to leave together!
Credit: Ellen Kaufman / Creative Commons
Credit: Ellen Kaufman / Creative Commons
disadvantages
HYGIENE AND PRIVACY FOR ALL
One drawback which comes into play if you decide to go backpacking, couch surfing, hostel and camping mode. If you go to the hotel every night, which is more luxurious, I wish you good instead of bubble baths and free parts of legs in the air around the world. With a little less comfort, your sex life will not however be as prosperous and at home. After a trek of three days without a shower and sleep 4 hours in the nose, you may not want to provide your body with your other half will have. The journey thus strength to love each other despite the fatigue, sweating, without artifice. A love for real then.
DUTY TO MAKE CONCESSIONS
Sometimes you will need to follow each other in adventures that do not like you at first. If it is culture and you bun, if you are more mountains and sea him, we must learn to compose your trip together so that everyone can find happiness without anyone feels aggrieved. One drawback that is not an entirely because the key to life together, traveling as elsewhere, lies in accepting the other as it is to listen and understand their desires with the sacrifices that this can sometimes involved.
The OMNIPRESENCE THE OTHER
If feel supported and share everything with his half are advantages, its presence at your side at all times can also be a drawback. It is also necessary to keep your marriage survive your trip, you give you moments to you. A little massage while Madame went shopping, a cinema comedy -Romantic while Mr. attends his soccer game in the stands ... If for some that fall within the concession, for others, it will avoid the contrary in do, two disadvantages avoided one go!
some disappointments
Travel may be indicative of certain defects in the other that you had not discovered before, the situation of daily unsuita- there. Latent racism, a bad habit to be carried away by events, a special way to get excited at the slightest blow ... the list of defects that can occur while traveling is long on everyone. Perhaps the question itself does not yet know! Again, everything is a matter of concession and travel two will test the strength of your relationship.
Here you are now warned that the adventure couple offers: its share of surprises, discoveries, unforgettable memories, and sometimes small mishaps, but nothing that can not be overcome by talking a bit and taking self. So, ready to go on a trip together?
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